Me “dunno, just fed up of being ill all the time, and not being able to keep up like normal people” 

My friend “Hmm so change it x”

Me “i cant
its apart of my illness….
there is no cure for it”
Above is a conversation I had with a friend last night, she obviously has no clue about my struggles with W.G. I had to hold back and bite my tongue. 
I would love to fucking change the fact that I am ill! But funnily enough I can’t, the W.G will eventually be the end of me! There is no cure, or anything GAH! what the fuck is wrong with people!
I’ve taken it easy today, done hardly anything at all, apart from catching up on sleep and having snuggles with my kitty cats, Oscar and Simba. 
Not much to say really, just feeling tired, down, and very lonely. MEH
Peace out
Tank girl x


So yet again I am ILL! 😦 Everything hurts and aches, on more anti biotic’s. So fed up of feeling ill all the time, and having to deal my my head…… It’s just to draining. MEH! 

Not even sure what to write. My brain is just a mushy mess… Too tired to put down anything inspiring or thoughtful… 

It’s so frustrating, I want to be able to enjoy the sun, and have fun e.t.c but I can’t keep up, the sun makes me tired, I’ve lost my appetite, just drinking loads of fluids. I just want to be able to enjoy a full day out, without feeling achy or tired…. But I can’t! 😦 I just want to be a normal 27yr old…..

Peace out

Tank girl x

Drowning x

Done all my jobs for the day. I had my hair cut, got my eyebrows waxed, dropped my rent change thing down to the housing office, got some cleaning stuff and cleaned up the flat at bit, got a few bits in town. Then come back and chilled out with the boys Oscar and Simba and watched some dvds.

Externally I put up a great front, getting on with life from day to day, doing the things that need to get done, just acting like everything is all normal. But that’s not how I am really feeling deep down inside. I think I have pushed all my feelings deep down inside, and sometimes it hits me in waves, then goes again away again. Just feel like I’m going through to motions of life, rather then living it. I’m just not even sure how I feel. I feel terrified to let out how I really feel, I’m scared of sinking into my illness and grief and not being able to find my way back out. I’ve lost all sense of self, sense or purpose. I’m scared to embrace how I really feel, it’s so much easier just to ignore how I really feel, and put up a front. Just lost and confused in a sea of feelings, and I feel like I’m drowning. Finding it extremely hard just to explain how I feel….. 


Peace out

Tank girl x

Another Tuesday, full of urges

DBT group went well. The 2 mindfulness exercises we did were cool, 1st 1 we did colouring, 2nd 1 we played Jenga 🙂 

I ended up spending the day with one of the woman from group. Was really nice.

This afternoon I ended up napping with Marley for like 3 hours, and didn’t do any of the things I intended to, but hey, there is always tomorrow right?!

Urges and thought’s driving me insane tonight. All I want to do it cut. It’s all I can think about, and I know it’s all I will think about it till I do it….meh. I just want out for a few days.

Peace out

Tank girl x

Tired and ill

So on Thursday I got poor lil Marley spayed. Yes she was pregnant with kittens, but I did what was best for me and her, plus there are too many unwanted animals in this world, without adding more to them. Everything went well, and she came home the same day. I’ve got to keep her away from the boys until her stitches are out and everything is all healed. 

Mentally I’ve just been feeling the same really. Depressed, struggling and so on. Physically I’ve not been doing well at all. Migraines have been bad again, along with joint pain. I have been in agony with my lower back and hips. Been sleeping so much as well. Acid reflux has been painful and bending down is not good because everything I bend down I nearly throw up. Feel like I’ve got a viral infection again, sinuses are playing up, coughing loads, so tired. URGH need to get to my docs next week.

That’s it really. Will write more when I’m not in so much pain.

Peace out

Tank girl x

Struggling so much!

Not written for a while. Not been feeling too social-able.

So Marley is pregnant, but I can just about cope with me and them let alone kittens as well. So she is getting spayed tomorrow. I feel really bad for her and the kittens. But it’s for the best in the long run. I’ve got to get her to the vets for 8:30am-9am OMG! So early and takes an hour on the bus! 😦 Will try and find someone to take me there. No luck as of yet though.

DBT group going ok…. Feeling a bit jaded with it all really, but sticking it out as it is one of my days where I actually see people for a few hours. It’s just an effort to get up and there for 10am. I am so exhausted right now. 

Think I may skip class tomorrow as I gotta be up so early to take Moo’s to the vets. Will probably come home and crash out till I have to go pick her up again.

I am ill yet again! I am so fed up of getting ill time after time it’s unreal, not helping my moods at all, it’s just dragging me down and  making me feel worse. I was well for about 2 weeks and yet again I think it’s just a viral infection. So I need to see my gp again. I am so tired and achy its un-believable! I’m just sleeping so much. Feeling so down and depressed today, just keep thinking why am I still here?!

Just fed up, not coping well at all. I just want to hid away from everything. I just want everything to go away.


Peace out

Tank girl x

Uh Oh!

I think my baby girl,  Marely moo, might be pregnant! Poor girl! Will take her to the vets next week, and keep you all up-date. Not sure if I will be able to handle 2 cats, and pregnant cat and then kittens as well as myself…. Will see what my options are if she is pregnant. I’m going to get her a separate litter tray, so she can stay in my room away from the boys, till I know what’s going on for sure, as she’s been hissing at Oscar in particular at the moment, and he is the daddy!

Oh my! Oscar will be getting his balls of as soon as possible I can tell you that!

Peace out

Tank girl x

1st Blog :)

So wow this is my 1st blog! 🙂 I hope everyone that reads is able to get something out of it.

I’ve been doing a lot of  “random” scribblings at the moment. Anything that comes to mind, comes out onto paper. I find it very therapeutic, it helps get everything out and organises my thoughts and feelings. I think I get more sense out my my crazy writing then I do out of my psychiatrist, who is a complete douche bag,  and never listens to what I have to say. I swear she is just in the job for herself….. her own self fulfilling bullshit… I don’t know, but it’s certainly not to help those who are screaming out for her help…. As you may of noticed I am totally disillusioned by our so called mental health system in this country.

I will eventually show you all some of my random stuff…. But not just yet.

It’s nearly 3am and I’m still awake. My brain is rushing full of ideas and thoughts and things to do. Why it does this in the middle of the night I have no idea… I suppose by being up and writing and giving into my racing thoughts is probably not the greatest idea in the world.

My cat’s are very excited that I am up and in the lounge with them. They are racing about the flat like they are on speed lol!

Just watching Law and order SVU… I love crime shows and stuff like that, CSI Vegas, New York and Miami. I’m not too keen on NCIS though.

Ok this has been a bit of a ramble of a blog haha! BUT I’m sure they will get better as I go on.

Peace Out x