I contacted D’s step mom and we sent a few texts back and forth. D doesn’t/hasn’t kept in contact with her since she was in hospital. M was so sweet and said that if I had asked her whether I should of lent her the money in the first place she would of said no, as she is unreliable. Well you live you learn I suppose. So I’ve said to the mediation I’ve tried everything to confirm the address and I can’t, so they are going to send it to the address I have and see what happens. So fingers crossed she’s still there or at least getting her mail forwarded.
I woke up yesterday to a text saying that my brother had been stabbed. It was like 8:30 am. So I wasn’t really with it and was so shocked by what I had read. So I text my bro and he rang me. Basically he has asked his neighbour to turn down his music, he was polite about it, my bro can be aggressive. But he is also very diplomatic when he needs to be. The guy answered the door with a knife and started to attack him. He was stabbed 10 times, mainly in the arm, once on his chest and tummy and once on his butt, but also a few scratches. He’s totally fine, no internal damage. Just a few deep wounds on his arms and lots of bruising. The bloke was arrested, but has since been released on bail. My brother has moved in with a friend on the family. I don’t blame him, the flats are no longer safe for him or to take Jack too. He’s recovering well he’s just sore and tired.
Yesterday morning I had my CPN and we did more on my crisis plan and started looking at my care plan. Going to finish that next week and start doing a WRAP plan which stands for Wellness Recovery Action Plan. So that will be a good thing to have, as I will be able to have a copy of too. So yea its going well, think I have about 3 sessions left now.
After my appointment I came home, had something to eat and chilled out for a bit. Then I walked to the coach station with foxy girl to meet my mate off the coach. J’s coach finally came! OMG it was so great to see him. We walked back to mine and sat and just chatted and caught up. We then went to the shop to get some food in for his stay. Then came back and chilled watched DVD’s and had dinner. Took foxy for a wee, came back and watched a few films in bed and chatted before we got to sleep.
I was up early this morning, been getting up at about 9:30 am each day. Fed the cats and had some breakfast and just chilled out. J got up not long after me and we just chilled for a few hours. So J could wake up a bit. We both got ready and headed out with foxy for a walk.
The walk was really nice, we popped into a shop and all the staff were cooing over foxy, taking pics of her, having cuddles. She loved it! They are going to put the pics up on their fb page. We eventually got out the shop and on our way. We got to Baiter and I took foxy off her lead for the 1st time for a long walk. She did SO well, she was so obedient, I was so amazed! So proud of her.
After our walk we came back and both took pain killers as we were achy and tired. We had lunch and watched a DVD. After the film we went to Asda as J wanted something and we came out with pumpkins and a few Halloween things and matching boxers 😀 We are so awesome!
Chilled out watching Simpsons and I did us dinner. We then spent time carving our pumpkins! It was only the 2nd time ever that I had done it. I love Halloween as an adult, as we were never allowed to celebrate it as a kid as my mom was like meh its a form of begging bullshit! Lol! But yea cleaned up the mess and put lil candles in a lit them up! We had fun and kept us quiet for like half an hour. We then played a game on the xbox called Blur for a few hours. Then put on a Russell Brand DVD and I caught up on here and FB and J did the same using my Tab.
I inboxed and old ex of mine, just saying no ill will etc.. Kinda making omens ya know. Feels good. We’ve been having a nice chat.
It’s getting late, need to get to bed soon. Tomorrow is going to be awesome! We are are going to see Russell Brand live in concert 😀 SO excited!